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In the light of some recent event(which is, rather laughable)....

(i'm not stooping to your level of calling people bitches~ hahaha but it's a gif and gifs are awesome! sharing some love)


This post is dedicated to sharing my thoughts and my take on what certain people has been blabbering/spreading to others and defaming my dear friend and yours truly in the process.. Nice... What's your point again?

Okay, how about let's start by talking about the ambiguity of the words that perhaps triggered the fury of certain people? A private joke was shared between my good friend, Angel, and yes, it wasn't in a "private place" but nonetheless, it definitely wouldn't be seen unless certain settings were tweaked and the approval of the allowance of wandering eyes were done, it was really no one's business to make it their business. Until of course, it started getting personal.

The thing about ambiguity? It doesn't point fingers at directly at you, doesn't name names, and it very subtly could point at anything (which of course, the offended parties do not understand, which I can forgive..). An example: "I am angry at what you said and what you did." Your inference: You are angry at somebody which could possibly be me, cos I might have accidentally blurted something out which I didn't know could've offended you.. or it could be someone else?

(So you see kids, the lesson is, you don't know who it was about and who it was directed to, UNLESS STATED. Unless you're the said guilty party, you don't want to publicly take up this position and then start ranting to people and then start making things ugly. Read your fine print more okay, you guys might get cheated because there are a lot of grey areas here and there in black and white.. but more on it later)

So naturally, the ones guilty of the funny usage of English stepped out and decided to be angry, which is all fine and dandy until it started getting personal, lame and bordering on pathetic when the broadcasting of their personal lives began (oh, as if getting people on your side would help you.. but it does, it makes you feel better doesn't it? Go ahead man. Really, go take sides and make yourself happy and that your friends love you yada yada.. yay for your popularity *claps*).

My point of it all is: The atrocity of the sentences and words used were all out in the public, and it kinda invites ridicule? :\ Just like how you see funny signs at restaurants going, "This Chye Por Egg never lied. The young and old loves." HAHAHAHAHHA, I mean isn't it hilarious? It's innocent, but you still laugh at it anyway and it becomes your private joke. And moreover, these sort of ridicule are ALL OVER THE NET.. But anyway, guilty ones just proved my point. Which was what I was laughing at in the first place. Not at the person, but the funny words used by said person(which is lame of me to do that thinking back hmmm).

So anyway, of course they took it personally! Apparently from what I inferred, laughing at how someone phrases things is actually laughing AT the person. Should comedians be out of job? Should singers and songwriters be out of jobs because the person they could be telling to 'shut the hell up and live your life' could be YOU (and you feel so offended you start to hate on the artist? LOL quite funny when you think about it..)? Should my friends feel furiously offended if they had the slip of the tongue and pronounced lunch as runch or carbonara as carborana, and I burst out laughing? *shrugs* 

It's all in good fun people.. until you made it ugly and I didn't actually want to bore myself with your nonsense. Nothing against that girl, but that dude sure is annoying.

I could turn a blind eye to you being offended, I could turn a blind eye to you being a big mouth by ranting it to your friends publicly (which isn't very mature), by wanting to stand up for  your girlfriend (which is in good spirit), by wanting to ruin reputations and defaming us cos you clearly didn't understand the point of what we were laughing at (oh, that is IF we were laughing at what you think we were in the first place)..

But I could not turn a blind eye when you started using vulgarities on my friend, who happened to be your ex girlfriend, who happened to be the victim of your incessant bullying in the relationship (because you were the one who kept walking away, the one who was fickle minded and couldn't choose, the  one who chucked the old to get the new when obviously things were not clearly and cleanly broken off with the old etc.), and claiming that my friend "has no life, has not moved on and is jealous".. oh, and her life is "just a tragic"?

Well, well. Look who hasn't moved on. Ask yourself, have you moved on? Have you REALLY moved on? Reflect on things you've done in dishonesty, reflect on yourself really. Then think about things you've said to her. Here you are acting all macho and slamming my friend, and then when you're all sad, what do you do and who do you turn to? Screw you and your two-face act. Don't be such a two headed snake. And if you want to be one, get out of her life and pull your pathetic stunt on someone else. My friend doesn't deserve an ex-boyfriend like you who wasn't a good 'boyfriend' in the past, and here she is, being nice to her ex-bf when it isn't obligatory and this is what she gets. and you know what they say.. about the "crazy ex bf thing" Now, that's "a tragic".. ha..

I am in no position to comment on anything, or want to be part of this thing between you guys, but I won't let my friend get defamed and be called a bitch or allow people to say "fuck you" and "left you for good" WHICH BY THE WAY, have you left for good? lol I am in no position also to say who's right or wrong, or judge anyone because I have only heard of the situation from different people and from the people who were directly involved, but if you dare to lay a finger physically or virtually on my friend, you better be smarter than this. A lot smarter than this.

I don't care if your friends who aren't part of this, hates me, or hates me for standing up for my friend, or hates us for being bitches for laughing at funny things you said, I really don't care. Cos I'm not the one going around telling people, "omg you know who who who said what what what, what a bitch!" and then so? Then what are you gonna get out of it? More fans of anti-us? It'll make you guys more united and bonded? What do you want out of spreading all these? You want people to say, "They're gonna get karma, nevermind they're gonna get karma". So we'll get karma for laughing at the kinds of funny words you said? Yeah, I think I got my funny english karma already because I typed a couple of stuff wrongly  publicly hahahahaah which you are allowed and welcomed to laugh at.

My point is, what's the point of you spreading all these to others and ranting to them and talking shit about us? Why not just come to us and just tell us it wasn't very nice what you think we did, and maybe this wouldn't be making a mountain out of a molehill? Why write those ugly stuff on your wall like, "fuck you, didnt except you to do that.. so much for being a 'good' gf.. etc.?" and you guys think every status or comment is about you? You think my comment of "hahah the singing sucks" applies to you? How would you know? Don't people post up videos of them singing all the time? :\  and then quoting my friend who said, "best duet of all time" and then the dude goes to say nasty things about the ex-gf? Being so sensitive and over-reading into things.. wow, you guys win. You guys can really take offense at everything single comment and then getting people to back you up.
 

If you were braver and classier, you could've just come straight to us or me, and ask about it like if it was really making fun of you, and things would be solved in a politically correct manner. Instead of the ugly mess you've created, you could've been in a drama-free situation and where I could be nice to people instead of looking like a bitch when I'm just standing up for a friend and helping her clear up the claims you made. Well, whatever it is, it's open for discussion between us. If you're gonna make it uglier, then that's your problem. I'm done with this for now and don't want to be embroiled in your nonsense~ 

On a nicer note, be happy you have each other. At least make whatever mess you caused be worth it :)

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See? I can be nice when I'm asked to be nice. And other than this lame thing, life's all good. I just needed a place to rant because unlike other people, I don't stink up facebook with my nonsense and hope people 'like' what I say when defaming other people... It just reflects on your maturity and the way you deal with things. So, deal. with. it. And wish for peace :)

x L